Interpersonal communication was a skill that could be learnt and developed the same way you learn to drive. You are constantly watching what is happening, working out how to respond and responding, then repeating this cycle.
Argyle's theory:
Argyle argued that skilled interpersonal interaction involved a cycle where you have to translate or decode what others are communicating and constantly adapt your own behaviour to communicate effectively.
Cycle:
- Idea occurs - See someone
- Message coded - What method of communication? Verbal/Non-verbal?
- Send message
- Message received
- Message decoded - Makes sense of it
- Message understood - Body language, eye contact
- Feedback sent
Contexts:
- GP surgery
- Care home